If you claim to be a feminist and you shame girls for wanting to do traditional things like take their husband’s last name or be a house wife then you are doing it all completely wrong.

Feminism isn’t an elite group who defeats gender norms, it’s a group who…

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Anonymous asked:

I wonder, why are women expected to disassociate so much? We watch men wank to porn the plot of which revolves around raping feminists into abandoning the idea that women are people, and we are not even allowed to draw conclusions about these men's personalities based on what they sexually respond to? Something tells me that if the roles were reversed here, nobody would question men's rightful disgust with women.

nextyearsgirl answered:

Men need to realize that they can only demonstrate how clearly they hate us so many times before we start taking their word for it.


it’s also a proven fact that the more fucked up porn you watch, the more fucked up your desires become. like, everyone i know, including myself, who have quit porn has grown healthier and healthier in their sexual desires. porn fucks with your mind, it makes you think that fucked up shit is arousing when you actually don’t think it is, really. it’s poison for the mind.